The Homestead Seedling of my Mind

This is how I thought that my blog would start many months ago….

“The Homestead Seedling of my Mind

The land is quiet, except for wildlife sounds.  The diluted light of morning dances off of the rising mist of the ground as a towhee sounds in the distance.  He’s been up since before dawn, as I, calling out to the day.  The aroma of freshly turned earth mixes with the taste of dew, and I hear the animals’ stirring as fresh coffee scent drenches the kitchen air.  I step across the threshold onto our land, and all is right with the world.”

The key word there is ‘our’ land.  But  now, it is only my land.  Oh, I suspected there would be times when I would work the land alone, garnering all of the goodies for myself…birdsong, sparkling dawns, quiet moonlight dances,  slug body patrol and tomato horn worm decimation; he traveled for work from time to time.  I planned for times of solitude, tucked into my life like little snuggly tidbits.  Now that sprinkling of solitude that I would embrace has become the ‘new normal’ of my life.   It is too soon to pronounce if it is to my liking.  For  now, it simply is.

I am ten days out from stepping onto the land that will be my new homestead.  What am I feeling? Mostly exhaustion right now.  Packing an entire house while working 12-hour night shifts is a bit overwhelming.  I entered the realm of second-guessing about, oh, three hours after the closing.  Oh yes, the words “WHAT were you thinking?” tumble around willy-nilly when I least expect them.   I swipe at them with packing tape and the old scissors.  I’ve no time for second-guessing now.   Doubts get tucked into the boxes of stuff that make up my life in the corner spaces and crevices, to come tumbling out at unexpected times as I unpack and settle in to the new place.  I suspect that doubt will join grief, and keep it company – and I only hope that I learn not to jump so when one or the other comes rushing around a corner and confronts me,  catching me unawares.   If I keep them separate from sadness, and forbid all three of them from ever occupying the same time/space continuum, I should be okay.

Okay.  Such a benign word.  “How are you doing?”  “Okay.”  What?  You want the full disclosure?  I think not.  Surely you’ve other things to do today 🙂  Besides, at any given moment, I really am okay.  Doing alright. Hanging in there.  It is those other moments that are best left undiscussed for the time being.  Remembering. Missing. Revisiting.  Those are the land mines of the mind.  Or would that be…mind mines?

For now, I need to stay focused on the forward motion of moving.  Focus on the future garden beds.  Seed catalogs will be arriving shortly!  That means planning and dreaming and probably overspending.  If I planted all the seeds that I currently have tucked away in their little packets, why I could feed at least three or four families, I’m pretty certain of it.  And the flowers, oh the flowers I could have!   And I will have them, eventually.    The memorial garden will be fitting, and filled with the plants, flowers and trees that he loved.  The herb garden proper will come to fruition as well, including the white picket fence with bobbing cosmos and trailing morning glories and moonflowers  festooning the pickets.  There will be walkways and tucked away places to sit for reading,  listening,  observing, or just being.  All of it will take time though, just like healing does.  It cannot be rushed.  And I so love how genteel and perfect this sounds in typeface.   HA!  I know me.  More likely it will look something like this…

Mud puddles, with large white and muddy dogs splashing mud buttons on the white picket fence that is leaning up against the barn waiting to be installed.  Nearby will be the pile of tools that I meant to put away when I finished chasing the dogs away from the freshly tilled garden beds because I was absent-minded and left the gate ajar.  I might even be trying to locate the gloves and weed-eater twine that I know I left lying here somewhere?  Oh, and what is that plastic milk jug that is half-chewed doing over there next to the imported beer cans that the Pyrs have brought home from their wanderings in the new neighborhood? And crap, I left the tea kettle going again and it’s empty and smelling up the yard because thought I’d only be out here for a minute and then.  Well, you get the picture don’t you?

Yet I will dream, and dream big.  I will work, and work hard.  And somewhere along the line, as time passes, my heart and mind will heal, and the six acres will begin to resemble some of the pictures that I carry in my head, snipped from magazine layouts and internet sites.  And I invite you to come along with me.   Maybe you too, are a dreamer.  Perhaps a doer even.  You may chuckle at my mishaps, cheer my accomplishments, and fend off my frustrations.  It is an interactive endeavor, for what good are words that go unread?  I cannot promise it will always be fun or happy.  It might even be tedious.  Because life is never static.   Time is unrelenting, moving forward even while we stand still to check what time it is.

Oh, and while you are here, could you  help me find the packing tape, scissors and Sharpie?  Because I know I had them over there last night….


  3 comments for “The Homestead Seedling of my Mind

  1. Rebel Ridge Woman
    December 18, 2009 at 8:36 AM

    Wonderful reading! You paint a beautiful picture with your words!


    • sheketechad
      December 18, 2009 at 7:38 PM

      Thank you 🙂 It is the only way I know how to paint…


  2. Terri
    December 28, 2009 at 4:31 PM

    Did you ever consider writing a book Sunny? If not, I honestly think you should. You have a way with words that is just enchanting.


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